Books

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson 

An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness by Kay Redfield Jamison

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine and  Rachel Heller

Books on courage, vulnerability, shame, empathy, and leadership: Brene Brown

DBT Skills Training Manual, Handouts and Worksheets by Marsha M. Linehan

Dodging Energy Vampires:  An Empath's Guide to Evading Relationships That Drain You and Restoring Your Health and Power

by Christiane Northrup

Mindset by Carol Dwick

My Many Colored Days by Dr Seuss acknowledgement and acceptance of a range of feelings and experiences

Positive Discipline by Dr Jane Nelsen a theory and series of books to support effective parenting

The Explosive Child 6th Edition: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children

by Ross W Greene PhD 

The Invisible String by Patrice Karst to talk to children about grief, loss, attachment, and love

Try Softer by Aundi Kolber

Specialists

ACT Psychologist: Dr Erika Torres  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/erika-torres-portola-valley-ca/1427630

Concierge Behavioral and Developmental Pediatrician: The Sutcliffe Clinic https://www.sutcliffeclinic.com

Eating Disorders: Beyond Measure https://www.beyondmeasuresfbay.com/

Pediatric Anxiety: Sara Li, PsyD https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/sara-w-li-burlingame-ca/703080

Psycho-educational and school neuropsychological testing: The Mind By Design themindbydesign.com

Sleep Disorders and Anxiety: Karin Voelker https://secure.helloalma.com/providers/karin-voelker/